Saturday, 28 December 2013

Books #3

It was about time I gave a little attention to this absolute classic. Published over two decades ago, The Virgin Suicides by Jeffrey Eugenides, is indisputably one of the most influential reads of contemporary literature, both in content and style. Writing a book about the mass suicides of 5 sisters in a small town in Michigan is no easy task, but it is even harder to do so using as a narrator a group of infatuated, close- to - obsessive  teenage boys, now grown up, reminiscing about the cloistered lives of the Lisbon girls. The style, however, is what struck me most about the novel. The attention to detail, as if each adjective has been carefully chosen, softly placed into the sentence to kindle your imagination and transport you to a candle-lit room or the boys' tree house. What it never does is let you in any of the girl's heads. Their surroundings: school corridors, interior of their rooms, house, front yard, clothing ect are described down to the last scratch. But we are never allowed into the brains or the emotions which led down to their ends. The mystique which the Lisbon sisters have over the boys is the same one that possesses the reader and it is both absorbing and infuriating at times; you want to scream at the girls' window, tell them to get out, run and never look back. 

Hauntingly beautiful and heartbreaking, it is a must read. 

The New York Times
March 19, 1993

"It didn't matter," Mr. Eugenides's narrator recalls, "whether her brain continued to flash on the way down, or if she regretted what she'd done, or if she had time to focus on the fence spikes shooting toward her. Her mind no longer existed in any way that mattered. The wind sound huffed, once, and then the moist thud jolted us, the sound of a watermelon breaking open, and for that moment everyone remained still and composed, as though listening to an orchestra, heads tilted to allow the ears to work and no belief coming in yet. Then Mrs. Lisbon, as though alone, said, 'Oh, my God.' " On her second try, her daughter Cecilia had succeeded in "hurling herself out of the world."

This terrible event, along with the subsequent suicides of Cecilia Lisbon's four pretty sisters, feels like something out of a Greek tragedy. It's not at all the sort of thing one expects to find in a coming-of-age story set in the leafy Detroit suburbs of the 70's; and as related by Mr. Eugenides, the deaths of the five Lisbon sisters take on the high, cold shimmer of myth. Their suicides become a symbol of the innocence lost as adolescents are initiated into the sad complexities of grown-up life, and the lost, dying dreams of a community that finds its collective dreams of safety spinning out of reach.

Beautiful and eccentric, the sisters have captured the imagination of the neighborhood boys, who spend hours spying on them and collecting souvenirs of their lives: snapshots taken by neighbors, cosmetics stolen from the garbage, a brassiere filched one night from the house. What is the girls' magical allure? In an ordinary suburban world of lawnmowers and barbecues, they represent the extraordinary: the odd, the inexplicable, the romantically extreme.

Under the thumb of their domineering mother -- who never allows them to date, and who insists they wear baggy, ridiculous clothes -- the Lisbon girls lead strangely hermetic lives, defined by church and school. Though their ineffectual father seems vaguely sympathetic to their plight, he never stands up to their tyrannical mother.

Eventually the boys succeed in taking the Lisbon sisters on a single group date, but Lux breaks her mother's curfew and the girls are permanently grounded. They are pulled out of school and locked in the house. In one memorable scene, their suitors make a last-ditch effort at communication. Having managed to get the girls on the phone, they begin playing them their favorite songs: "You've Got a Friend," "Wild Horses" and "Time in a Bottle." The girls respond by furtively playing some of their favorite songs: "Alone Again, Naturally," "Where Do the Children Play?" and "So Far Away."

Nothing, however, impedes the girls' withdrawal from the world. "The house receded behind its mists of youth being choked off," Mr. Eugenides's narrator recalls, "and even our own parents began to mention how dim and unhealthy the place looked." Leaves pile up on the lawn, garbage collects by the curb, and at night, raccoons prowl its yard. Sour, unpleasant smells seep out of the house, and grime and dust soon cover over its windows and doors.

The reader repeatedly wonders why the girls don't rebel. Why don't they reach out to friends, or run away from home? Why don't the authorities insist that they go to school? What has driven their mother to impose such a strict regime in the first place?

 Gradually, however, the narrator's hypnotic voice succeeds in transporting us to that mythic realm where fate, not common sense or psychology, holds sway. By turns lyrical and portentous, ferocious and elegiac, "The Virgin Suicides" insinuates itself into our minds as a small but powerful opera in the unexpected form of a novel.


Wednesday, 25 December 2013

Merry Christmas!

I have to confess something. The only reason why I am writing on Christmas Day is because I have ALWAYS wanted to use this picture for some kind of celebratory occasion. Call me dated, distasteful, promiscuous and a LiLo fan, but I don't really care. I like Mean Girls and that is the end.
Lately around here I've been hearing complaints about Christmas and its many meanings. Let's not get into the birth of Jesus Christ but the word out there is that these festivities are consumerist, materialistic, industry driven and with the hard times we are living over here, there is no reason to celebrate when numerous families won't be eating Turrón or drinking Cava because they simply can not afford it. Conclusion?  
 Christmas=Sad times.
Stop right there. Are we forgetting what Christmas is actually about? No, not the birth of Jesus. Yes, we might be engulfed in a capitalist society where you are the merriest-of-us-all when you rape the Department Store or attend all the exclusive parties. But you have to know how to detatch and see the bigger picture. During the three years I've lived away from home, in another country, 1028 miles away, the phrase "coming home for Christmas" became literal. The excitement, the build up weeks before about reunions in hot cafes when it's freezing outside or late night dinners with friends. It was nothing to do with presents or obligations, just people, my people. Christmas is about surrounding yourself with the best company possible (and that doesn't have to mean 20 family members who you barely know). Of course it is hard times, it is the worst of times, but people, friends, family, is what makes it better. It's the real magic.
So yes, I am a Christmas fan. And a Mean Girls fan. Go ahead, shower me with adjectives.

Tengo algo que confesar. La única razón por la que estoy escribiendo el día de Navidad es porque SIEMPRE he querido usar esta foto para alguna celebración. Llámame pasada de moda, con mal gusto, promiscua y fan de LiLo pero la verdad es que me da igual. A mi Chicas Malas me gusta y ese es el fin.
Últimamente por aquí se oyen muchas quejas acerca de la Navidad y sus muchos significados. Sin meterse con el nacimiento del niño Jesús, corre la voz de que estas festividades son consumistas, materialistas y controladas por la industria y con los tiempos que estamos viviendo no hay razones para celebrar cuando numerosas familias no van a comer Turrón o beber Cava porque simplemente no pueden permitírselo. Conclusión? Navidad=Tristeza
Espera un momento. ¿Nos estamos olvidando de lo que realmente va la Navidad? No, no Jesús otra vez.  Sí, tal vez estemos engullidos dentro de una sociedad capitalista donde tú eres el más navideño cuando vacías el centro comercial o te paseas de fiesta en fiesta. Pero tienes que saber cómo alejarte y verlo todo con perspectiva. Durante los tres años que viví fuera, en un país extranjero, 1028 millas de distancia,  "volver a casa por navidad" era literal. La emoción, el nerviosismo aumentando en las últimas semanas pensando en reencuentros en cafeterías calientes mientras en la calle hace un frío que pela o en cenas tardías con amigas. No tenía nada que ver con regalos u obligaciones solo gente, mi gente. La Navidad es rodearte de la mejor compañía posible (y eso no quiere decir 20 familiares que casi no conoces). Son tiempos duros, son los peores hasta ahora, pero tu gente, tu familia, tus amigos son lo que merece la pena. Ellos son la verdadera magia.
Así que sí, soy fan de la Navidad, y de Chicas malas. Adelante, cúbreme de adjetivos.


Saturday, 21 December 2013

Winter Solstice...

To welcome Winter, here is a beautiful poem...

The Sky is Low, The clouds are Mean

The sky is low, the clouds are mean,
A travelling flake of snow 
Across a barn or through a rut
Debates if it will go.

A narrow wind complains all day
How some one treated him;
Nature, like us, is sometimes caught 
Without her diadem.

Emily Dickinson


Monday, 2 December 2013

Happy Birthday Miss Callas ....

I don't need the money, dear. I work for art